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2011年1月22日 星期六

1935 Divorce & Separation Melodrama: Tomorrow's Youth a Film About Custody, Estranged Children, & Divorce Themes Featuring Franklin Pangborn & Dickie Moore

1935 Divorce & Separation Melodrama: Tomorrow's Youth a Film About Custody, Estranged Children, & Divorce Themes Featuring Franklin Pangborn & Dickie MooreTomorrow's Youth entertains with both comedy and drama. Tackling issues not usually approached in the 1930s, the film pits a young boy between his divorcing parents. Yet throughout this drama, there are plenty of laughs, both intentional and unintentional. The young boy (who is perfectly cast as cute as can be) must spend time with each of his parent. Eventually, he gets fed up and runs away, leading to tough life lessons about misfortunes and the harshness of the real world. Since this is 1930s cinema, the results are pretty positive. However, the darker cultural perspective provided by the concerns of Tomorrow's Youth is particularly enlightening and entertaining.

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2011年1月21日 星期五

Grandma fight for custody system changes for 2 years

updated: 1/17/2011 08:11 AM Carrie Johnson, grandmother of 2-year-old Molly Koch, who was found beaten in October in a St. Charles hotel room, talks about her granddaughter and how she wants to protect the girl. Carrie Johnson, grandmother of 2-year-old Molly Koch, who was found beaten in October in a St. Charles hotel room, talks about her granddaughter and how she wants to protect the girl.

? Laura Stoecker | Staff Photographer

Molly Koch, 2, remains hospitalized with injuries suffered in an October beating. At top, Molly is seen in her Sunday best last spring. Above she is seen on her birthday in November at Children?s Memorial Hospital with her grandmother Carrie Johnson. Molly Koch, 2, remains hospitalized with injuries suffered in an October beating. At top, Molly is seen in her Sunday best last spring. Above she is seen on her birthday in November at Children?s Memorial Hospital with her grandmother Carrie Johnson.

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Molly Koch in her Sunday best last spring. Molly Koch in her Sunday best last spring.

? Carrie Johnson holds a photo of her granddaughter, Molly, on her birthday in November. Carrie Johnson holds a photo of her granddaughter, Molly, on her birthday in November.

? Laura Stoecker | Staff Photographer

Carrie Johnson of Elgin discusses the circumstances surrounding her 2-year-old granddaughter, Molly Koch. Carrie Johnson of Elgin discusses the circumstances surrounding her 2-year-old granddaughter, Molly Koch.

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Carrie Johnson, grandmother of 2-year-old Molly Koch, discusses the life of her granddaughter. Carrie Johnson, grandmother of 2-year-old Molly Koch, discusses the life of her granddaughter.

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Carrie Johnson, grandmother of 2-year-old Molly Koch, digs through a pile of her photos of Molly to tell the story of the little girl, who remains hospitalized with injuries suffered in an October beating. Carrie Johnson, grandmother of 2-year-old Molly Koch, digs through a pile of her photos of Molly to tell the story of the little girl, who remains hospitalized with injuries suffered in an October beating.

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Molly Koch loves animals, her grandmother says. Molly Koch loves animals, her grandmother says.

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Molly Koch, 2, on her birthday in November at Children?s Memorial Hospital. Her grandmother, Carrie Johnson, is with her. Molly Koch, 2, on her birthday in November at Children?s Memorial Hospital. Her grandmother, Carrie Johnson, is with her.

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Molly Koch playing outside last summer. Molly Koch playing outside last summer.

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Carrie Johnson made a poster of pictures of her granddaughter, Molly Koch, playing outside to hang in her hospital room. Carrie Johnson made a poster of pictures of her granddaughter, Molly Koch, playing outside to hang in her hospital room.

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Carrie Johnson of Elgin discuses what she plans to do to help protect her granddaughter and other children from the same fate. Molly was beaten so severely she suffered broken bones and head trauma, which caused her brain to swell. The little girl remains hospitalized nearly three months after the beating. Carrie Johnson of Elgin discuses what she plans to do to help protect her granddaughter and other children from the same fate. Molly was beaten so severely she suffered broken bones and head trauma, which caused her brain to swell. The little girl remains hospitalized nearly three months after the beating.

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Carrie Johnson keeps a horrible picture on her cell phone.


It shows a bruised 2-year-old girl whose head is swollen, crushed by what police say was the hand of Johnson’s daughter’s boyfriend.


It’s that image that has Johnson fighting for a legal path to obtain custody of Molly. It fuels the pain that has Johnson determined to put her own daughter behind bars.


Molly Koch now lies at Children’s Memorial Hospital. She’s awaiting a Feb. 10 surgery to replace the portion of her skull doctors removed after the beating police say she suffered in a St. Charles hotel room.


On the morning of Oct. 27, the only thoughts Johnson had were of fueling her granddaughter’s love of animals by taking her to the zoo that weekend.


Molly was somewhat of a neighborhood celebrity, spending up to eight hours on many days playing outside and interacting with people in the area. She especially loved to play with any pet she came across or toss bread crumbs to ducks at the Fox River.


Johnson’s daughter, Cathleen Koch, had picked up Molly the Sunday before. Johnson assumed Koch was going to visit Molly’s maternal grandfather. the little girl spent much of her time with Johnson as Koch worked and spent most of her free time with her boyfriend, James Cooper.


Shortly after 10 a.m., Johnson received the call at her Elgin home that had her questioning whether Molly would play or function as a regular child ever again.


Police reports say emergency personnel arrived at the Super 8 Hotel in St. Charles that Wednesday morning and found Molly unconscious, severely beaten and not breathing.


Authorities believe Koch brought Molly to the hotel to visit Cooper, who had been living there for several months. Johnson knew Cooper lived at the hotel, but never understood why.


“Whenever I asked about it, my daughter would say she was 28 years old and could do whatever she wanted,” Johnson said. “I didn’t like it. I thought about trying to intervene to find out more, but then she started talking about moving to Florida and taking Molly away. ... And then I got the call from the police about an incident at the hotel, and I thought, ‘Oh, my God. What’s happened to Molly?’ ”


By then, the Department of Children and Family Services was investigating. It would be two days before Johnson saw her battered granddaughter.


Molly’s left arm was broken in two places. She had a dislocated shoulder. Her skull was so severely cracked from trauma that her brain was both swelling and dying.


“It was a bad dream,” Johnson said. “I didn’t know how a little girl like that could be beaten that way and still be alive.”


Police located Cooper two days after the emergency call and arrested him. The 27-year-old Elburn man faces charges of aggravated battery to a child and three counts of endangering the life or health of a child. Johnson had hoped for attempted murder, but prosecutors told her there was no way to show beyond a reasonable doubt that Cooper intended to kill Molly.


In announcing the charges, the Kane County state’s attorney’s office pledged to seek the maximum punishment, up to 60 years in prison, because of the “exceptionally brutal, heinous and wantonly cruel” nature of the crimes.


Then investigators started asking questions about Koch’s involvement in the matter. Soon, Koch also was implicated and indicted due, in part, to her mother’s testimony.


Koch, 29, of St. Charles, faces one count of aggravated battery, six counts of endangering the life or health of a child and six counts of obstruction of justice. Prosecutors said Koch did not strike Molly, but she was there when the beating occurred, did nothing to try to stop it and then lied to investigators about what happened.


Her defense attorney contends she also was a victim that day of domestic violence, but Johnson believes her daughter’s prosecution is a lesson to all parents and their relatives that it’s not OK to let child abuse occur no matter what the danger is to themselves.


“If all relatives would stand up and protect these children, there would be far less abuse,” Johnson said. “It’s not OK to be a bystander.”


With Cooper and her daughter awaiting trial, Johnson says she has three missions: 1) Be there for every second of Molly’s recovery; 2) Remove anyone who might jeopardize Molly in the future; 3) Do everything she can to be there for Molly the rest of her life.


To achieve the second and third goals, Johnson believes she’ll need help. She fears her daughter will get out of jail and continue to make poor decisions.


“When I asked her what happened she said, ‘Mom, it’s not that bad. And you have to understand I love (Cooper),’ ” Johnson said.


“If that guy would’ve hit my granddaughter in front of me, I’d have been dead because there’s no way I would’ve allowed that,” Johnson said. “You don’t stand by and watch a child brutally beaten. I believe he was trying to kill her.”


Johnson said Molly’s father has re-entered her life and taken an interest in her care for what Johnson said is the first time. Johnson fears Molly could end up in the custody of someone she doesn’t really know. The father could not be reached for comment.


Molly faces several more weeks in the hospital, and the process has begun to determine where she should live once she leaves that protected space.


DCFS spokesman Jimmie Whitelow confirmed the agency is investigating allegations of abuse regarding Koch and Cooper. This is the first time the agency has been involved in Molly’s life.


Typically, the custody process involves placing a child with a relative who has the ability and desire to care for the child in the “least restrictive environment.” That family member could receive full or partial custody, but even that could be temporary as DCFS investigates family dynamics and any allegations of abuse.


In the end, DCFS only makes a recommendation to a juvenile court judge. The judge makes the final ruling.


Johnson says she doesn’t see why Molly’s biological parents should even be considered for custody. She envisions a new “Molly’s Law” that would make it much easier for extended relatives, or even strangers, to wrest custody away from biological parents.


“Too many children end up back with abusive parents,” Johnson said. “And how many of these kids that we are letting get abused turn out to be criminals or abusers of others because we don’t want to talk about the problems in our system? Just because mommy or daddy wants to get an increase in their food stamps, that doesn’t make them a good parent. Just because you give birth to a child or helped conceive a child, that doesn’t make you a parent.”


Johnson’s dream would be a law that says if a biological parent is convicted of a violent crime, has recurring police involvement, or has been involved in any sustained allegations of abuse, they are omitted from custody consideration.


“The bottom line is every child is deserving of love,” said Johnson, who plans to petition lawmakers to change the custody system as she envisions.


For now, small victories in Molly’s recovery are what sustain Johnson.


“The other day I was sitting next to her at the hospital after testifying,” Johnson said. “I whispered to her, ‘Grandma’s been working on making sure no one hurts you anymore.’ She got this little half smile on her face. That’s what I live for.


“She may never run down the street or play like other kids do. But am I ever going to stop working for that? Never.”


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Caught in the middle of the child

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Children and divorce - custody that child custody evaluation - is it really that important?


A majority of courts now require some sort of an assessment of the custody of the child in any contested custody of the child, or divorce action.

Limitations of time and Judicial economy are behind the application. Judges often don't have the time to listen to numerous witnesses and long testimony it is necessary for them to fully understand the dynamics of the parents, children and family interaction. A decision of custody that will impact a family for years must be based on information much valid, neutral as it is available.

A child custody evaluation aims to employ a professional, usually a psychologist to interview members of the family and other relevant witnesses. They often manage personality or psychological tests to help meet. After independent information much as available custody evaluator prepares a recommendation to the Court in family law, including its analysis upon which custody recommendation.

It is so important, if not more, an assessment of custody of children, then the trial of custody itself. Often, judges approve the recommendation of the evaluator of custody of children as their order unchanged or occasionally some minor changes, based on any other test may hear in the trial of custody or divorce. The judges place great emphasis on the evaluation of the custody of the children because they generally do not have sufficient information and evidence from any other source on which to base its decision.

So the answer to the question is "Yes", take it very seriously. Child custody evaluations can "make or break" custody or the case of divorce.

If you have an opportunity to choose who will carry out the assessment of custody, explore their options. Learn as much as possible on the evaluator, their experience, their prejudice in favour and against the Moms, dads, shared custody and sole custody. If you are represented by a family law tax, ask your lawyer if he or she knows this evaluation proposal and has a good relationship with him or her.

Evaluators are subtle and human prejudice and beliefs that may have a major impact in their analysis of his family and his recommendation of deprivation of liberty.

After having determined the custody evaluator, it is essential you for prepare extensively before (not during or after) the assessment. Its preparation, how present yourself and your knowledge of what you are looking for the evaluator will affect your recommendation and, ultimately, the order of custody of children.

You should receive an assessment of custody of children of poor, Don't give up. Several options are available to turn back. There are methods to change opinion of the evaluator, or if that is impossible to attack the credibility of the evaluator or the facts on which the evaluator based its recommendation for custody.

Not accept the evaluator for custody recommendation as if a "deal", if you don't like. Be persistent and assert their rights of custody until it a solution deprivation of liberty which you think is in the best interests of their children.








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2011年1月20日 星期四

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Child - custody lawyers how to find the best lawyer for livestock & if


Family law is not something to be addressed by itself only. Most importantly, in the case of custody of children is finding a good lawyer. Most people will start to look at with a quick search on the internet; Google something as well as "Florida child custody lawyer" or "Florida Attorney family law".

There is nothing wrong with this way to start the search. The problem is that many people end it there also.

Find an ad for a lawyer in custody of the children of Florida, visit your site and then hire them at the first meeting.

A risky way is to address such an important decision.

Find the right Attorney is vital in this process.

You can really make the difference between winning and losing.

How is the best lawyer of child custody in Florida or whatever state reside you in?

Here are some good places to start:

1. See if you have any s lawyer in your area who are members of the Academy American of matrimonial lawyers. These s Prosecutor are experts in family law and tend to be some of the best and most dedicated out there.

2 If you have problems with a former vindictive or abusive, can be extracted from local meetings of domestic violence counseling and support. Many of these women have had extensive relationships with family law and the courts. They can be a lot of information on tax s and the jury in his County.

Once you've chosen a few s of a lawyer's family law believes that it can be good, do some research on them. Check State Bar Association's Web site to see if there are any violations against them.

Google his name and see what comes. (Note: must also do the same for the judge, if you already have one assigned.)

If still think they could be a winner, they interview and make questions survey on family law and their specific case. Something that should be asked is how busy are with their current cases and what is the expected time for returning calls and messages. Most lawyers are notoriously bad at this and you need to know if something arises, how much support will be available and the speed.

When looking for a lawyer qualified child custody in Florida or whatever state reside you, remember that a little further research be miles ahead of the game.








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