Child custody - "Baby Momma Drama" - Does This Belong in court things?

I like to solve problems starting at the end and work initially backwords. In other words, look how I want the result and work backwards to from there. So if I had a problem with my former place the child in 5 minutes delay each time I'd like to think about it from the point of view of the courts and how you would order. What would order say, "back to the child in time or face per year in prison"? It is not likely. What judge will hear talk about "the former is 5 minutes delay", the former by saying "I am always on time", and then issue an order to your liking? No judge would do. Seems goes by lifting them arrive late.

How saying it? Imagine that going to court and telling the judge when you see one another claim. If you heard outside, you might think "do"? If the judge asks if there is violence, and the answer is not "" then that not reinforce that thinking "do"?

It is this kind of argument you seem more need parents to a court. But if you begin to put these items together, you may be approaching a situation that requires the assistance of the courts. Let me explain. Do you remember that when I told to think about the results? If you want the child returned on time, you want to stop shouting when you see or speak and need child support in time, maybe is time to look at a different solution.

The courts have a mediation process. You can petition the Court to send him to mediation where can develop their differences, or if that fails, then take mediation to the next level and take them to make a recommendation to the Court. The secret of this is being truthful about problems (which can fix what you don't know about) and offering real solutions.

In the example above, I would suggest that each parent be responsible to refer to his time removing final drop out (not may occur if you have control). You have each parent stay seat gave in his car during exchanges eliminating any argument, and then delete all contact except by email. An argument email is much easier to document that says wha4t and much less dramatic.

So the next time that you have "baby mamma drama" think about how to resolve this problem resolution and think backwards until you reach the initial.

Ed knows that they can be difficult at first hand how the battles of custody of the child and the emotional toll can take parents and children. It has created a forum at http://www.child-custody-forum.com/, where parents can go to share experiences, seek advice and seek support.