Guardianship of children - activity in a high conflict relationship

Co-Parenting is the "buzzword" is always bantered about when talks of parenting of children after divorce. This is a great solution for parents who have low conflict relationships and can communicate openly about parenting issues. When parental conflict high to prove this and not what is activity called conflicted. Parenting conflict can be devastating to a child, causing huge problems.

Face the facts, if parents are high conflict, can be in the best interests of the child to have less backwards and forwards. It may be better to have one parent to take the child to school and activities since the parents are too much conflict. The risks are too high to allow the battle to get on the road.

High conflict relationships seem to have a life of its own. Everything seems left a firestorm. Even the slightest question about child created a storm that even that Zeus could be proud. Then, how to approach this seemingly insurmountable obstacle of important element in the life of his son? The answer is known as a parallel activity.

The first step to implement a parallel activity is to disconnect from the other parent. The second step is to develop independent relationships with teachers, coaches, medical and friends of his son. Don't want to trust the other parent for your information.

Ready to take your child to the doctor, dentist and haircuts take turns. If receive report cards, make sure to back up and forward it to the other parent. Do the same with medical records, sports programmes and other extra-curricular activities. If the former is late for an Exchange, let him go. Not argue over whose turn it is to do it. Time is on your side.

When it comes time to meet with the mediator and talk about the plans of custody and visitation, is miles ahead if you can be honest about the relationship of high conflict and the comfort of their parallel parenting plan. Document relationships with teachers, physicians and friends wherever possible.?If you can help with a project in your child's school and get a thank you card, hang it. If you can your child or team in the League football coach soon do so. Display copies of immunization records. What is more important to show that you are involved in the life of his son.

Ed knows that they can be difficult at first hand how the battles of custody of the child and the emotional toll can take parents and children. It has created a forum at http://www.child-custody-forum.com, where parents can go to share experiences, seek advice and seek support.