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2011年1月28日 星期五

Children suffer

She him her and her mother happy will be assured interview at one time in his room after custody of A child to the mother should be given family court judge ruled.

In case of another child B defendants and, he was sent to live with her mother and shouted to stay with her father, she goes. Had been convinced that her case the Chief Justice did not believe her testimony, and she had been brainwashed to her father and his relatives.

Family Court judge Malaysia to resolve intractable custody dispute turned General interview.

You can, however, is not much family law experts of this judge child psychology experts and children to harmful when counseling is incredible.

A strong opponent of the one, the Bar Council House is the family law Committee Chairs Lalitha Menon.

"Not being trained in most family judge applies the principles of what you have, look at what they should be, what kind of many child psychology of family issues. Only way, based on interviews with his or her child to what needs can decide? "

Menon child interview the highlight to be easy. "'S is not a simple case of the child a simple question: ' do you like more?? ' or ' anyone else better parents? '

"You must learn to read between the lines to understand they must might have a question or coached the children judge the different architectures have custody, parents are trained, and judges to get the truth. They need more training. 」

Menon has been pushing for training bar family law Committee, the judge can be useful, says.

"You must learn how to recognize them and to understand nuances and deeper issues.

See also family lawyer in this case, enough training does what many more judges difficult sometimes. Many had tough times, "and she notes.

Family law practitioners honey Tan also agree, obviously there isn't some countries family law and law reform (marriage and divorce) Act 1976, mastery.

"Many hours of training; To get the judges hear families with problems they come off the bench criminal bench of civil and industrial. Important judge sent for training to handle can be manually detach from my personal experience has seen objectively what family issues "that thang.

Agree to draw their own experiences as a parent to determine if the lot sent Menon, family court judges.

"For example, find our many judges appreciate that happens not aware or single parents. Good parents, so anyone their children such emotional abuse in obedience to imagine.

"Reality is alienation of divorce and custody battle theme of their child's parents," she says.

Another problem is the lack of instruction on best practices, procedures, rules and the judges.

"As a variety of ways of a judge of another, practice a little instability is currently. Take some professional advice; some do not. Read some welfare report; some consider unnecessary. We painted a set of guidelines we think that managing required and judge submitted previously, but still employ Court. There is no consensus procedures, basic practice "says Menon.

Required basic training on important aspects of sending family law course for Family Affairs to put anyone important to note that there is important, she says.

Seems to prioritize Menon family law, the judge is not felt.

"They are 'family'; And I think certain procedures have not been met. Certain basic requirements are not tracked. In between too much relaxation and judges ' anything goes "attitude that let. Thrown attention wind even for family issues by following these steps known carefully in other regions, "says Menon.

Believe should take Singapore family court book leaves Tan.

"Bar Council legal Conference in the last year was from our speakers, Singapore court family decisions. Because she is not meeting the child psychology and child care professionals in the Singapore talked about most kids who interview family court judges. Their child psychologist, and welfare officers, in these cases involved children depends on the real experts like the evaluation report. 」

For the consultant psychologist Valerie Pernet custody conflicts supports the idea of psychologists. "But must be a forecast of their territories in particular personality traits or behavior. And evaluation interview both parents is this way that will be able to create a profile. Deviant or abusive personality, to identify and more children protected by the system. Is now the challenge and child custody cases have also been made assess-require?ments of limits "

However, I feel that parents want to live in kids strongly Pernet interviewed.

"Child is asked to make these decisions" she emphasizes. "Developmental-ly, children good decisions possible maximum not reached. This is why they are under the care of the parents in the best interest of our hopes, they will be. Teenagers are to take care of their parents, and of decisions must consent. Children under 12 years old I know what they want to you can it? "

If you select the children she is he or she is more fear of rejection between the stress, trauma, chaos, etc creation is known to be put in the difficult position.

By child protection consultancy Vijayakumari child we believe shouldn't be allowed to determine the custody conflict because he or she lives with whom she or he has coached parents.

Do not allow access to some interim custody with parents, or visit she cooks all kinds of excuses. Children have seen other parents, other parents don't care, or other horror stories may she said in the description. "Believe young children. Sometimes, to grandparents children coaching relationship.

Should encourage her, court preparation system is known as specialized social welfare guardians ad litem (GAL) report.

"Gal qualified social workers child matters in a sound understanding of family law and considerable experience. GAL's role is kid's wish is the best option to Court clearly has. Global address list to do this may take several sessions can take a long time have never met some children ago this child who to trust, so that should spend the time to find out. "

Thus, GAL home visits, and find a casual question sometimes speakers outside the House of children, family and child quality time spent or is added. "Grandparents the story doctor family GAL living in individually meet the parents, the same House members to meet school teachers have seen children on a regular basis also. You should consider parents ' attitudes and parenting styles. "

Pointed out that no Tan, but enough for social workers and experts, and Malaysia to handle these cases.

You must to set up a Malaysia throughout the can with the emergency senior lawyers Sunday Star columnist Roger Tan, family division or court judge of family law to preside expert family law cases.

In 2000, was put on the agenda, so to higher hospital Court Kuala Lumpur moments like this.

--Star-Asia News Network


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